The Mixed Messenger Deliberate Brutal Love Dreamer (DBLD) Just...take...the...fucking...flower...darling. The Mixed Messenger apologizes again. You're looking for love, but you'll always maintain your independence. You're prepared for a real commitment, but it's also likely that you're ambitious, which creates a certain romantic tension and ambivalence within you. So although you can be very affectionate to someone, you are also capable of pulling some dubious shit. Your exact male opposite: The Playboy Random Gentle Sex Master In a relationship, you're usually the emotional leader. With your friends, you're a little bit more part of the pack. You're well-liked but you're not the uninhibited type, so the spotlight's often on someone else. In both social and romantic situations, however, you almost always get what you want. Influencing people is something you do very well. ALWAYS AVOID: The Playboy (RGSM), The Loverboy (RGLM) CONSIDER: The Mixed Messenger (DBLD) Link: The Online Dating Persona Test @ OkCupid - free online dating.